How To Approach A Lady In Public And Win Her Heart - Benavat

Some men are naturally shy while some don't even know how to
start. The thing is, wooing a girl in public is simple and a lot
easier than when she's alone. Here, we have put this down to
help you be a man, Lol. Read carefully to the end.

1. Make Eye Contact:
If you see someone you'd like to meet, try to make eye contact before talking to her.
Once you catch her eye, try to maintain eye contact. If you repeatedly make eye contact with someone, it could be a sign that she wants you to
approach her.
Three glances from a girl might signal that she's interested. Why are eyes so powerful?

Science seems to suggest that eye contact activates
our brain's reward center, the ventral striatum. What does this
mean?

Our DNA is telling us that someone staring at you is cause
for celebration! Smile.

A friendly smile is a great way to show
someone that you're interested in them. If she returns the smile,
that's a good sign that she might be interested. Once you've
exchanged a few glances and a smile, check her body language.
This will give you a better idea if she's actually interested.

2. Check Body Language:
While reading another person's body language, male or female, is
NOT an exact science, there are definitely a few behaviors to look
for that will signal that the person is not interested in engaging in
conversation. Respect the girl's right to be left alone. Is she
facing away from you? Are her arms crossed? Is she listening to
music, or reading a book? Is she frowning? Is she specifically
looking away from you? While not perfect indicators, expressions
and body language like this probably means leave her alone. Body
language is not everything. Women are taught from childhood that
they must be pleasant no matter what. If you are going to
approach her, pay attention to how she reacts and what she says.

3. Break The Ice:
Start with a simple ice-breaker. Perhaps you are reading the
same book, or you noticed she was wearing a shirt that has a
band you like. Perhaps the bus is late and you can commiserate
with her. If she doesn't seem interested in talking, leave her
alone. There are numerous ways to tell: not making eye contact,
monosyllabic answers, looking around for some way out of the
conversation. If she is interested she will make that clear: eye
contact, smiling, sometimes leaning closer. Once you've
approached and established that she's interested, proceed to
having a conversation.

4. Strike A Conversation:
This might flow naturally out of your ice-breaker comment, but if
not there are several ways to have a conversation. Ask her if she
made her earrings/dress/other cool item. You could even say
something like "I couldn't help but noticing how your dress
matches your eyes. It's a great color." It lets her know that you
think she's attractive without dwelling on her looks. Like anyone
else, girls like to be appreciated for more than just their
appearance. If you're in a place like a bookstore or comic book
store, ask her what her favorite book is. Be sure to listen when
she speaks. You'll find out more about her, have opportunities to
further the conversation, and show her that you are interested in
her as a person.

5. Make Plans To Meet Again: If she seems interested and you
are still interested, try and make plans for a future meet-up. Give
her your phone number or email address. This way she feels in
control of the situation. You'll know for certain that she's
interested if she follows up. Ask for her phone number or email
address. If she says no, leave it. She doesn't owe you anything
further, even if she did enjoy your company.Ask her on an instant
date. Ask her if she wants to grab coffee somewhere. Always
choose a public place for an instant date; you want her to feel
comfortable. Have a coffee shop in mind if you do ask, or ask her
if she knows a good place. That way she will feel in control of the
situation.

6. Be Respectful: This is the absolute most important part of
approaching a girl in public, or in any situation. If she is not
interested back off. Remember, different girls have different tastes
in guys, or no taste in guys. One girl might just feel that you're
not her type. However, there might be another girl out there who
will think you're awesome. Now that you've finished reading this,
feel free to share on your social networks. Your friends will thank
you for sharing this piece of info with them. Goodluck guys!